r/relationship_advice

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This subreddit is for seeking advice on personal relationships. Posts must include a title with ages/genders, a detailed description, a specific question, and a TLDR if long. Vague questions, vents, and advice about past relationships are not allowed.

Before you post: This subreddit is exclusively for seeking personal relationship advice. Sharing personal projects or products is not aligned with the subreddit's purpose and would be removed.

The rules, in their words

1. Posts must contain a title, description, TLDR, & basic info like ages, genders: Posts MUST include: * A title that summarizes the problem or question. This is where the ages/genders should be placed. * A description of your situation. * A question or a request for what advice you want. * Length of Relationship * A brief [**tl;dr**](http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/TLDR) if your post is long. Examples of ages/genders in the title: - I [24M] have an issue with my aunt, [45F] - My partner [19NB] told me [21MtF] - I [45F] love my husband [51M]
2. All posts must request specific advice on a specific, real situation between two or more people: We do not allow vague requests for advice such as: - What would you do? - What should I do? - Any advice would be appreciated Likewise, we do not allow: - Vents/rants - Posts about past or potential relationships - Posts giving advice Lastly, this subreddit relies on honesty. If your content is in any capacity dishonest (examples include: chatGPT posts, creative writing, profile inconsistencies) it will be removed and you will be banned.
3. No questions that can be answered with yes or no (aka moral judgment): Your post is a yes or no question (aka moral judgement) if your question starts with or contains any of the following: - Is it...? - Asking if you or the subject of the post is right or wrong. - Am I....? - Any variation of “Am I The Asshole?”, including AITA - Does/Have anybody else...? - Should I…? - Would you....? - Is this.....? - Can I...? #If the question in your post can be answered with a yes or no question, it is moral judgement and will be removed.
4. Things This Sub Can't Give Advice On:: Rants, unsolicited advice, letters to an ex, "body counts" or number of sexual partners, mental health issues, medical health issues, legal problems, financial problems, any situations involving minors (under 18 regardless of local laws), and any situations involving abuse (violence, sexual, emotional etc). All of these will be removed and locked.
5. Only One Update Is Allowed: You can submit **one** update post at any time after 48 hours has past from the original post. Additional advice may be requested in new posts but they may not be continuations of the orignal one. E.g. no titles saying "Update 2" or "Update 4". We're not a blog. Please post further updates on your own profile.
6. Surveys, Academic Research, Information Requests, and Media Questions Should Be Sent to Modmail: Surveys, information requests, and journalistic or academic research questions must be sent to [modmail](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=/r/relationship_advice) prior to posting. If you are doing academic research, message us with your IRB number, a point of contact for us to verify your pending research, and the details of your research for consideration. Press Requests must be routed through modmail, via u/eganist , before communicating with users directly.
7. All comments must be on topic, and focus on the OP, and be made in good faith: Derailing arguments, jokes fighting, and moral whataboutism is not allowed. Give good, ethical advice. Remember, the goal is to help your fellow human.
8. Keep It Civil: No insults, no threats of violence, no encouraging violence, no telling an OP to go to punch someone else, no threats, no harassment, no trolling, no advertising other subs, no spam. You will be banned. All bans in this sub are permanent. You don't get a free pass. For more information, please see our [rules](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/wiki/rules#wiki_rule_8)
9. No referencing hateful or abusive subs/individuals/content: **No referencing hateful or abusive subs/individuals and content**. No advocating for or referencing content that is conspiratorial in nature, transphobic, anti-women/men, anti-LBGT+, that promote anti-vaxx or anti-science content, or contains harmful rhetoric against groups of people. Think includes linking to subs that feature this. You will be banned. You don't get a free pass. [Further information](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/wiki/rules#wiki_rule_9)
10. Do not directly message users: If you wish to opine on the matter at hand, you are to comment on the post. Users found to be privately messaging other users to circumvent this directive will be met with a permanent, irrevocable ban. **If a user has sent you harassing messages, please upload your screenshot to Imgur.com, and notify the mods via modmail. We will action the user accordingly.**
11. No situations involving people under 18: Your content has been removed because it involves a situation with someone under the age of 18. Please note that changing your ages to get around this rule will result in an immediate ban. Please consider posting this to our sister subreddit, r/teenrelationships